Well, I just don't know!

[mommy2010]

Ok, so I'm not sure how to go about this, my 17th birthday is coming up. Obviously I'm pregnant, and I'm getting scared. I am on diversion and she just thinks I am the worst person in the world. I'm so confused, she even thinks that my own mom won't want to take care of me! Why do people say things when they have no idea what is going on? Why would a parent lie and say that their 16 year old child will beat them up or worse if they say that they are doing something bad. That they are scared of them? I'm honestly completely confused. I just don't know what to do. I don't know who to talk to. I'm going to set up a meeting with a lawyer. I just don't know. I'm in councelling, but they don't listen. It seems like they get one judgement on me then that's what they stick to. They come see me on a bad day and all of a sudden I'm a cruel hateful person that is angry all the time. WTF? Honestly! Who can I talk to? I don't want to burden any of this to my fiance but I want to. Help?

[DownUnderButNotOut]

Hi. So you're going to be a mommy in 2010. This should be a BEAUTIFUL experience, but obviously your parents are not dealing with this well, but I noticed in your other post that you have a fiancé. So, it is time to leave your parents and cleave to your husband. This is biblical advice!

Forget about a fairy-tale wedding, your marriage will be about the three of you as a family. If you're still living with your parents, then you are missing out on important bonding that you need to do as a couple, before your child comes along. You cannot have too much of that time. Without it you might doom your marriage.

[DownUnderButNotOut]

I just read one of the other posts and realised that it is obviously not "the parents", but just "the father" who is not handling it well, but the advise remains the same. It is good that your mom feels the same.

[mommy2010]

Well, I am very sorry to inform everyone that I had a miscarriage. This was a very hard experience for me. It taught me a lesson that life is hard and something will always let you down, you just have to pick yourself up and keep moving. Thank you for your support and guidance!

[HunterGreenLover]

Mommy2010,

I am so sorry for you loss, it can be a truly heartbreaking thing.  I lost a daughter when I was 22 weeks pregnant, back in 1996.  She will always be my little angel, even now that I have a 14 month old.  Just know that this child will always be a part of your life and getting emotional about the loss will be a real part of your life.  Just take your time, talk about your feelings and know that in time you will heal.

HGL

[Griff]

A bit convenient?